Recognizing setbacks as part of the journey
Setbacks are a natural part of the process, and reminding them of this can help reduce feelings of guilt or frustration. Acknowledging that some days will be harder than others, while offering reassurance during those times, can help keep their sense of support and motivation strong.
- You could say, “It’s okay if things don’t always go smoothly – every effort you make matters, even on the tough days. We’ll keep working through this together.” This can help build resilience and keep them motivated.
Example dialogue about plans and hopes
Caregiver: “When you think about the next few weeks or months, is there something you’d like to focus on improving? It could be something small, like finding a routine that works for you.”
Individual: “I’d like to feel less anxious, maybe get a better handle on my sleep.”
Caregiver: “That’s a great goal. Feeling more rested could make a big difference. Are there any things that help you relax or feel calmer before bed?”
Individual: “Sometimes reading helps, but it doesn’t always work.”
Caregiver: “That’s a good start. How about we try exploring a few other options together? We could also work on a plan that keeps building toward what you need to feel more comfortable.”
This technique helps the person think about their own goals and what they want to achieve. It does this through supportive conversations that encourage them to express their thoughts and feelings, which can build hope and motivation.